PolyVic

Online

Australia

• Polyamory Australia
• PolyOz Web site and discussion list
• Pleasure Activism

Some US sites

• Polyamory.org, which includes the delightful "How to f*** up: Guide of carefully tested methods for making mistakes in polyamorous relationships".
• Online poly magazine Loving More
• PolyFamilies.com - an excellent site especially for people with questions about polyfidelity, living in community, and child-rearing.
• The Polyamory Society - more of a political poly site with mission statements and good links to other poly sites. If you're interested in legal questions or in poly activism in the US this is a good site to start with.
• An excellent article on jealousy and how to deal with it.
• Responsible Polyamory.
• An interesting example of one thought-out poly relationship 'contract'.
• "What Psychology Professionals Should Know About Polyamory" - this is a good article to give your therapist if they're not poly-aware.
• Polyamory? What, like, two girlfriends? - a really good site with a mature sensible approach to poly issues and some great FAQs.
• The Institute for Twenty-First Century Relationships - takes a broader approach to some more general questions.
• Some general opinions on why there is such opposition to polyamory.
• A Poly Page for Secondaries - experience, advice and comments about and from non-primary partners in poly relationships.
• Polyamory? Bridging the Divide. Suggestions for poly-mono relationships
• Polyamory: An Anthropological Study, by Natalie Perry.
• Models of Open Relationships, by Kathy Labriola.
• "Beyond Same Sex Marriage - Legal Recognition for Multipartner Relationships", by Heather Kitching.
• Article on the Liberated Christians Web site about swinging.
• Liberated Christians.
• Relationship LLC.

Books

Note: The PolyChromatic Web site also provides a list of poly-related books.

• The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities, by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt. This is a frank, funny, wise and sometimes confronting book looking at a really wide variety of polyamory issues. Many poly people I know rate this their favorite poly book. Melbournian bookshops known to stock it are 'Hares & Hyenas' (135 Commercial Rd, South Yarra - phone 9824 0110) and 'Polyester Books' (330 Brunswick St, Fitzroy - phone 9419 5223). Best to call these shops first as stocks can run out.
• Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits: Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships, by Dr. Deborah M. Anapol. This book is in a more traditional "self-help book" format, and is less confronting and a little more formal than the Ethical Slut. Full of good stuff based on practical experience and research, and a good book to give to more conventional family members if you are coming out to them, and if they need more information - it looks reassuringly "normal"!
• The New Intimacy: Open-Ended Marriage and Alternative Lifestyles, by Ronald Mazur.
• The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People, by David P. Barash Ph.D. and Judith Eve Lipton M.D.
• Survivors of an Open Marriage, by Jennifer Gates.
• Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines for Responsible Open Relationships, by Wendy-O Matik.
• Open Marriage: A New Life Style for Couples, by Nena O'Neill and George O'Neil.
• Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy, by Lori Gammon and Bill Strong.
• Polyamory: Roadmaps for the Clueless and Hopeful, by Anthony D. Ravenscroft.
• The Lesbian Polyamory Reader: Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex, edited by Marcia Munson and Judith P. Stelboum.
• Love You Two, by Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli. A novel from the viewpoint of a teenage girl journeying through the discovery and eventual understanding of her parents’ polyamory.
• Open: Love, Sex and Life in an Open Marriage, by Jenny Block.

Children's Books

• Strange Stories for Strange Kids, by Art Spiegelman. This includes a story called "The Little House That Ran Away", which tells the story of a house who runs away and meets and marries two other characters Huff and Puff (and they have little House Huff and House Puff children).
• Elsie-Marie and Her Seven Little Daddies, by Gabrielle Charbonnet and Pija Lindenbaum.

Film

Movies

• Bandits, starring Bruce Willis, Cate Blanchette and Billy-Bob Thornton. A lively comedy with the delicious line (from Cate): "What if I don't want to (choose)?"
• Ordinary Decent Criminal, starring Kevin Spacey as an Irish crim who has 'married' two sisters.

Documentaries

• When Two Won't Do. A very moving self-made Canadian documentary of the progression of a poly relationship.
• Poly People, by producer Muffy Potter. A six-minute look at one Australian poly family, made by a student documentary maker.

Miscellaneous

• The Family Short web series of a poly family
• The Twelve Poly Days of Christmas - humourous poly song on YouTube.